Wedding + Honeymoon planning

marciayour narrator, humbly reflecting

Marcia and I are in the midst of planning our wedding. It’s been a total nightmare. Neither of us are in to big weddings, but at the behest of my family, we tried to plan a March 1st wedding extravaganza, but luckily we had extreme troubles getting enough options for people to rent houses, hotels etc… We live in a very touristy area; the houses have all been rented out already and the hotels booked up with package tours, not to mention $500 plane tickets. It was becoming a logistical nightmare. So we decided to cut the wedding size down and have a small intimate affair, here in Bucerias, with just our immediate families and local friends (with a small shindig in LA for the LA peeps). We moved the date up to December 1st (our anniversary - it’ll be two years). Which is six weeks away! we’re crazy. Marcia has been spearheading the wedding planning part with my input of course. If all goes well, in six weeks I’ll be a mexican citizen and we’ll be properly hitched!

We’re also planning our honeymoon, a two month trip to South East Asia and India. I’ve just begun to plan the trip. And I am in waaaaay over my head. 2 months to hit Bali, Lombok, Thailand (bangkok, chaing rai, kho phi phi), Cambodia, Vietnam, India (veranasi, darjeeling) and Nepal. It’s gonna be a whirlwind trip. I’ve been casing the Lonely Planet Thorn Tree Forums, as well as AirTreks.com, which has a cool little flash graphical trip planner tool (although I don’t like the sales tools stuck on to it, feels like Cars Direct or something, if anyone knows any other graphical trip planning sites, feel free to drop it in the comments). I’ve also been digging Flickr for photos of various places.

I had planned on getting an all-asia pass from Carthay Pacific, but that turned out to be a dud, since their deal ends Dec.13th. I also checked out United, One World, Star Alliance, etc.. and all sorta suck, one way or the other, mostly due to their lack of flexibility. But it seems like they’re for older, more inflexible travelers anyway. Eventually, I learned that getting around SE Asia is pretty easy with the help of several small airlines like Air Asia and Thai Airways. Also, conveniently, I have enough miles on my AAdvantage Card to get Marcia and I from LA to Bali and then from Calcutta to LA in business class, for free. Chalk that one up to the old days of buying computer equipment for mostasa. Yee haw!

If anyone has any insightful info on planning a trip of this sort, please do drop the knowledge on me, hot. I’ll probably update this entry from time to time with new info as I get it. Interested peoples can also check my backpack page I’m forming all this info on.


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Melvin Rivera said,

October 18, 2006 @ 7:58 pm

oh my GOD!!
december first?
small intimate wedding?
we gotta talk. there is NO WAY i am missing your wedding.

mel

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Angela said,

October 18, 2006 @ 11:54 pm

one graphical trip planner i just came across - http://www.travelpod.com/travel-blog-community/A/5/tpod.html#TOPT

we were thinking of doing the all Asia pass as well, fits our needs because we’re going for a month this winter (if i don’t head to Zihuat or Nicaragua again instead). i think when you are in Asia it is cheap to travel intercontinental. i went back to singapore a couple years back by JAL(great flight) and travelled by air-con bus(so cheap) up malaysia and then trained it to Bangkok from Georgetown, interesting experience saw some nasty railway side slums. from Singapore there are many good deals on flights to other parts of asia as i’m sure Hong Kong will have. Also from VanCity to Singapore on EVA air Evergreen class(between economy and business class) is about $1500

i’ll send more info as i start planning.

hey, will also be in Bucerias for a week with deans folks on feb 3! we rented a house online, should be interesting! lets meet and have a drink, if you’re in town!!

congrats on the partnership!
Angela

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Ed Fladung said,

October 19, 2006 @ 9:00 am

Melvin, hey dude. i’ll contact you directly. I’d love for you guys to be there fro the wedding. it was just too much of a logistical nightmare to plan something in the spring. we’ll be coming to NYC in the late spring most likely to visit family, so we’ll have a little party there as well.

If you are still down to come, we’ll put you up, for sure. would love to have you.

Angela, thanks for the great advice. the more i research the various places I’d like to go, the more I realize i need more time. I’m not sure if I’ll be back, by the time you guys are here, but if I am, I’d love to grab a bite and a beer or something. for sure. I can show you guys the good taco joint (la cruz). let’s talk more. where are you guys staying?

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Lilia said,

October 19, 2006 @ 9:48 am

Ok, I’m not sure if I’m overwhelmed with emotion at the thought that YOU are getting married or the thought that I might actually miss it. Yes, please do talk to Mel. I am sooooooooooo happy for you!!!!

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M & L said,

October 25, 2006 @ 12:34 pm

thanks for all the info that your site has offered us. We are also planning a 4 month hiatus from Canada that includes a month in PV and 3 months in Thailand from which we will travel some of the neighbouring countries. Check out Bangkok Air Discovery Airpass as it also includes flights throughout Cambodia, Laos, and China. Have a great trip!

http://www.bangkokair.com/discoveryairpass/?id=4

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